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[personal profile] grimmrow
Here are my goals for the short term (over the next five years)

Leave the nursing home, get a house

Lose weight, Walk again, Lose Weight

Get weight loss surgery, the sleeve

Get my G.E.D

Go to college, take psychology, and English

Get a tattoo (I have an idea)

Get my lip pierced

Repierce my ears

get them double pierced possibly (I'm not into piercings like a lot of people. Like I don't want gauges)
get an eyebrow piercing (possibly)

Write a start up novel (Just something with my current skills, probably in romance with heterosexual and lgbtqa couples. I'm thinking something soap opera based, which is what most harliquen novels are)

Make friends

Build better habits (like brushing my teeth regularly, brushing and washing my hair, taking showers everyday)

Continue exercising and make it a habit

Reading more, focus on one book at a time

Start writing poems again, I'd like to study poetry prose

Invest money even if it's just a little

Learn to draw and practice almost everyday

Get back into cooking and baking

Get a puppy and two kittens with all shots and check ups spayed and neutered.

Start learning a second language with Rosetta stone

Take a class on graphic design

Work on freelancing after two years minoring in English for writing

Get a journal to write all these goals in

Expand my vocabularly (need a tutor)

Become part of a Coven (Wicca)

Learn to Garden

Learn to drive and save up for a car

Get my license


Long Term (in the next ten years)
Get a motorcycle and get my motorcycle license

See the Ocean

Go Camping

Learn more than two languages (thinking Spanish, Chinese, Japanese and French or Gaelic)

Move to New Orleans or California (Must invest first)

Buy a house (with six-seven rooms)

Get skin removal surgery

Get Transaffirming therapy, also get therapy for any issues I have (before I adopt) and Get on T

Go on a date

Get a boyfriend and eventually husband

Eventually marry whoever may be my soulmate

be a psychiatrist and make boku money doing it (or become a teacher, I have about six-eight months before I have to decide on a major. I may take four years of psychology to do therapy online and then four years to

be a business major so I can open my own publishing company. If I come into money or invest well, I'll just support authors who self-publish so they can market their books. it costs money)

Adopt four children: asian, asian indian, african american, south american and caucasian

Write my autobiography

Write a children's book for fifth graders and below

Write more serious fictional novels like horror, fantasy and scifi

Open my own publishing company that helps authors want to keep writing and focus on making novels

and That's all I can think of right now.

Date: 2026-01-11 09:56 am (UTC)
clairaudient: That would be me (Default)
From: [personal profile] clairaudient
Hey there,

first of all: May all your dreams come true! :) I am really keeping my fingers crossed for you. I looked up what the GED was again, and apparently it is like the high school diploma, if I am not completely wrong? Would you need to attend a preparation course beforehand? Do you need help with anything? I know I am not great at several subjects, but math was one of my strongest subjects when I passed my Abitur (Which is like the high school diploma, too... The test you need to pass to be allowed to study at a college or university. I attended an evening school back then in order to prepare for the test, do not regret that at all.).

Psychology and English seems like a good combination, especially since it seems like you are interested in getting your writings published. With psychology, I think you could get more indepth with certain problems humans all over the world face, too. ♥

If you need help with anything, just let me know. All the best!

Date: 2026-01-11 11:16 am (UTC)
clairaudient: That would be me (Default)
From: [personal profile] clairaudient
Yes, I am (willing to help you :D). I just looked up what algebra 1 and algebra 2 would entail. I am just currently trying to determine what to start with. I know this may sound weird, but how are math tests in the States built up usually? Are there maybe example tests online? (Will look this up in a minute.) Would you like to do live sessions or do you have specific questions that I can explain in writing? Both would be okay :D, I just need to take into account the time difference between Germany and where you are.

Date: 2026-01-11 11:54 am (UTC)
clairaudient: That would be me (Default)
From: [personal profile] clairaudient
May I send you a Private Message?

Date: 2026-01-11 10:09 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] wavesagainstrocks
These are all awesome goals! Wishing you the best!! :D I share similar goals, especially the learning to drive one. Is there anything in specific that makes you want to learn or not want to? Owning a motorcycle would be real cool too! The thrill of being on one is somethin' else for sure!!